Consciousness archaeology
The stories of your life, and why they matter
Your photos and videos, voice notes and old letters, books and songs and the documents that mattered — connected into stories you can keep and share.
The relational view
A photograph of your grandmother, connected to a voice note from the same afternoon, connected to a place you haven’t visited in twenty years.
Most memory apps store a grid of your artifacts. iRelate stores the relationships between them. A photo of a kitchen, a recipe taped to the fridge, a voice note about the woman who taught you to cook — they live separately, then suddenly they live together.
You didn’t organize this. iRelate did. Because the connection was always there — you just couldn’t see it.
How it works
Collect. Connect. Protect.
Three verbs. No features masquerading as values, no “AI-powered” stickers. The mechanics of saving, understanding, and keeping what matters.
01
Collect
Photos, videos, voice notes, documents. iRelate indexes each artifact by the people, places, and moments it contains — and the relationships between them.
02
Connect
Ask questions in plain language. iRelate answers with evidence — the artifacts themselves, not just tags. A voice note from Tuesday and a photograph from 1994 that share a place, a person, a feeling.
03
Protect
Your vault is yours. Encrypted. Private. No ads, no tracking, no social graph, no engagement metrics. Export anytime. The architecture is open, the data is not for sale.
Built on something real
Open foundations. Specific tools.
Memory is a graph problem. iRelate is built on PostgreSQL for durability, Apache AGE for graph relationships, and Neo4j for connection. Vector search for similarity. Your data lives in your control. We don’t sell it, share it, or train on it.
- Foundation
- PostgreSQL
- Graph
- Apache AGE
- Memory
- Neo4j
- Search
- Vector + lexical
What iRelate is not
We’re not a social network. We’re not a photo editor. We’re not a note-taking app.
No ads
No promoted posts. No sponsored memories. No “Discover more” rails. The product is the product — there is no second product.
No tracking
No pixel. No analytics SDK. No third-party fonts. No telemetry you didn’t opt into.
No social graph
No followers. No likes. No engagement metrics. Your memories are not a content stream.
No training on your data
Your artifacts are not used to train models — ours or anyone else’s. The data is yours; the inference is local where possible.
iRelate is a private workspace for the people and moments that matter to you. That’s it.
Private beta
Request an invite.
iRelate is invite-only while we’re in private beta. Tell us a little about what you’d want to save, and we’ll be in touch when there’s room.